I hope everyone is able to spend it with the one you love doing whatever it is you both enjoy.
Perhaps you’re like me and you don’t have a special “someone” but that doesn’t matter. As long as it’s spent with a loved one then that’s what’s important. I’ll be spending mine with Kayla (my dog) and my Mom.
It’s not often that an occasion like this falls on the day that I publish a post so I started thinking what I could share with you that you would consider a gift from me.
Then it hit me during the middle of the night. The most inconvenient time when I’m so tired I’m not getting up to write any of this stuff down. But I just asked the big man upstairs to help me remember what I wanted to say and here it is. Yay!!!
Where It All Begins
A lot of people I speak with online are still having issues with where they are. It’s either the confusion or overwhelm of putting all of the pieces together so that you can finally understand how to move forward in their business or it’s not seeing the results they had hoped for and the frustration is heavily on their minds.
I want to take you back to the beginning as I see it and discuss a topic that everyone is already aware of but still might not completely grasp.
That’s your belief system.
Okay guys, please just bare with me. I promise, you might accidentally have an aha moment without even realizing you needed one. Gosh, I love those.
If you study the law of attraction then I know you’re familiar with the fact that you have to totally 100% believe that you can get what you want.
I’m not saying it’s easy because it took me a number of years to fully grasp this myself. Now in the offline world there are some things about me that I have super confidence in and that doesn’t waver at all.
When I came online to a world that was totally unknown to me, the information was so over my head, I had no one to ask, I continued to absorb so much information that I was more confused then when I started, I wasn’t getting anywhere and the doubt started to creep in.
I know you’ve been there, it’s pretty safe to say that we probably all have at one point.
This is what sets us apart from the rest though.
We’re still here… We believe this is where we’re suppose to be and we refuse to give up.
My Own Experience
Just so we have this straight, I’m not a life coach nor am I an “expert” in this area. I’m able to share this with you because of my own experience. Isn’t that what a lot of us are really after? Someone who has been where we are and want to know what they did to get past that!
As I mentioned above, it’s no easy task and I’m not even going to pretend that it is.
Here is the bottom line that you have to grasp first.
How bad do you want this?
I mean we can all “say” we want to make money online or we “want” to build a business that brings us a full income. Saying it is one thing, doing it is another.
You can put the blame on others or circumstances but the bottom line is that there are just some people who are all talk and no action. I love to help people but I finally learned how to only attract the people who want to help themselves. All the rest of them are what I call energy devils.
If you really wanted what you said you did then you would move mountains to get there. You would not have an issue believing in yourself because if you truly understood how that works you “know” that the rest will fall into place.
I should have given up a l-o-n-g time ago but I didn’t because I believed this was where I was suppose to be. I still didn’t know what the heck I was doing but I knew the answers would eventually come. You have to continue to believe in yourself.
So How Does That Work
Most of you who are regular readers of my blog know that I’m a Christian and I believe in God and darn proud of it.
So for the purpose of this post, whoever you believe is your “higher power” then let’s just stick with that term and keep going.
There is a higher power bigger then you running this show whether you like it or not.
Everyone was born on this earth the exact same way. You are a child of the higher power, you are special, you are unique, you are one of a kind.
The reason we grow up believing what we do is because of what has been ingrained in us through childhood. We all had parents, or some type of parental figures, and they believed what they believed and instilled that into us.
It doesn’t matter what kind of childhood you’ve had, it doesn’t matter the horrible things you may or may not have been through, it doesn’t matter what things your parental figures taught you. What matters is that you are your own person.
You make the decisions about your life, no one else. You have a brain, use it!
Remember you are special, you are unique and you are definitely one of a kind.
From this day forward, know that with every ounce of your being. Believe it because it’s the only truth there is!
No more excuses.
Either you want what you want and are willing to do what it takes or you would prefer to stay in the victim mode and continue to rehash all those terrible things that has gotten in your way.
It’s over, it’s done and it’s in the past. You are in the present moment so concentrate on the now.
I’m speaking to those who know without a doubt they are 100% in control of their lives and just do not believe enough in themselves to make this work. If you have some type of medical condition holding you back, please know I’m not belittling your condition at all. We have professionals for that so I hope you’re seeking help.
You need to do whatever it takes to break through those barriers. You are NOT the only person on this earth who has had obstacles to face, bad circumstances to overcome or problems to solve.
You are special, you are unique and you are definitely one of a kind. I’m going to harp this into your head until you believe it too.
Once you believe without a doubt that you can have what you desire, the doors will start opening for you. You’ll start meeting the right people, you’ll be introduced to the right opportunities, you’ll find the support you’ve been wanting because that’s how it works.
Stop worrying about the “how” and just “know” it will happen…
That my friends is my gift to you.
Any Aha Moments
I’m pretty sure the majority of you already know this but my goodness, there are a lot of newbies still coming online and to my blog that this message today might help.
You know me, if I can help just one person then it was worth it.
So if you care to, please be sure to share with me if you’ve ever felt like this and hopefully have overcome this and learned what it takes to move forward. Love it if you’d share this with your friends too.
Do you believe?
I look forward to hearing what you have to say and once again, Happy Valentine’s Day! Rock on my wonderful blogging friends.